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DAM HOI

Vietnamese Engagement and Tea Ceremony

KIM SON BELLAIRE
10603 BELLAIRE BLVD, HOUSTON, TX 77072
SATURDAY, AUGUST 9 2025 AT 1PM
DRESS CODE: SUNDAY'S BEST. POLISHED, BUT NOT TOO FORMAL
NO GIFTS, PLEASE

LEARN MORE ABOUT THIS TRADITION BELOW

What is a dam hoi?

This Vietnamese engagement ceremony is a formal step in the Vietnamese wedding process.

FORMALLY KNOW AS LE DINH HON, THIS EVENT PRECEDES THE WEDDING DAY. DURING THIS CEREMONY, THE GROOM'S FAMILY VISITS THE BRIDE'S FAMILY WHERE THE GROOM WILL OFFICIALLY ASK FOR THE BRIDE'S HAND IN MARRIAGE.

What to expect?

The Dam Hoi begins with a procession led by the groom and his family to the bride's family home.

THE GROOM AND HIS FAMILY WILL PRESENT ADORNED TRAYS (MÂM QUÀ) WITH GIFTS. AFTER INTRODUCTIONS, THE BRIDE AND GROOM WILL PRAY AT THE ANCESTRAL ALTAR. A CEREMONIAL TEA SERVING FOLLOWS FOR PARENTS AND ELDERS. ONCE THESE DUTIES ARE COMPLETE, CELEBRATIONS WILL BEGIN. THIS CEREMONY IS FOR IMMEDIATE FAMILY ONLY, BUT A MODERN ENGAGEMENT PARTY WILL FOLLOW IMMEDIATELY AFTER.

LET'S CELEBRATE!

Wedding Details Coming Soon
Le Thanh Hon Se Som Duoc Thong Bao

2026
JULIA IDESON LIBRARY
550 MCKINNEY ST, HOUSTON, TX 77002
BLACK TIE OPTIONAL

SAVE THE DATE COMING SOON

The Ceremony
Le Thanh Hon

MORE DETAILS COMING SOON
SE CAP NHAT THONG TIN
BLACK TIE OPTIONAL

The Reception
Tiec Cuoi

MORE DETAILS COMING SOON
SE CAP NHAT THONG TIN
DINNER, DRINKS & DANCING

Where to fly in?

George Bush Intercontinental Airport (IAH)

2800 N TERMINAL RD, HOUSTON, TX 77032
30 MINUTE DRIVE SOUTH TO DOWNTOWN
45 MINUTE DRIVE SOUTH TO THE BRIDE'S FAMILY HOME IN PEARLAND, TX

Where to stay?

Recommended Hotels Within Walking Distance Near The Venue

C. BALDWIN, DOWNTOWN HOUSTON | $$$
ALOFT, DOWNTOWN HOUSTON | $$
MOXY, DOWNTOWN HOUSTON | $$
HOLIDAY INN, DOWNTOWN HOUSTON | $
COURTYARD, DOWNTOWN HOUSTN | $

EXPLORE HOUSTON

Chinatown

9889 BELLAIRE BLVD, HOUSTON, TX 77036 WILL TAKE YOU TO DUN HUANG PLAZA, ONE OF THE BUSIEST PLAZA IN HOUSTON'S CHINATOWN. IT'S FILLED WITH SOME OF OUR FAVORITE RESTAURANTS, CAFES, KARAOKE BARS, SHOPS AND MORE.

Museum District

WALKABLE DISTRICT SHOWCASING SCIENCE, ART, AND MORE. THE MUSEUM OF FINE ARTS FEATURES EGYPTIAN ANTIQUITIES, IMPRESSIONIST ART, AND SCULPTUREs. THE ZOO HOUSES RHINOS AND CHEETAHS. HERMANN PARK HAS PEDAL BOATS, A MINIATURE RAILWAY, AND BOASTS A JAPANESE GARDEN.

POST

DOWNTOWN HOUSTON’S HUB FOR CULTURE, FOOD, AND RECREATION. POST IS HOME TO ONE OF HOUSTON'S MOST POPULAR FOOD HALL, 713 MUSIC HALL AND THE SKYLAWN, A ROOFTOP PARK OVERLOOKING THE DOWNTOWN SKYLINE.

Red Envelopes

If you would like to traditionally gift us monetary funds,

VIETNAMESE RED ENVELOPES WILL BE ACCEPTED AT THE WEDDING. RED ENVELOPES ARE VIETNAMESE CULTURAL MONETARY GIFTS PRESENTED AT SOCIAL AND FAMILY GATHERINGS SUCH AS WEDDINGS OR HOLIDAYS LIKE LUNAR NEW YEAR. THEY ARE GIFTED AS A GESTURE OF HOSPITALITY AND SYMBOLIZE PROSPERITY, HEALTH, AND HAPPINESS.

Gift Registry

If you would like to purchase a wedding gift for us instead,

WE DO HAVE A SMALL ONLINE GIFT REGISTRY AVAILABLE FOR YOU TO EXPLORE AND CHOOSE FROM. A GIFT REGISTRY IS A COMMON PRACTICE FOR AMERICAN WEDDINGS BECAUSE IT HELPS THE COUPLE RECEIVE GIFTS THAT THEY ACTUALLY NEED OR WANT. IT ALSO HELPS PREVENT DUPLICATE GIFTS AND ENSURES THAT GUESTS CAN CONTRIBUTE IN A MEANINGFUL WAY.

READY TO RSVP?
PHUC DAP

This page will be ready by Fall 2025

FAQs

What is the dress code?

BLACK TIE OPTIONAL
WE ASK THAT MEN WEAR A DARK SUIT AND TIE, AND WOMEN WEAR AN EVENING GOWN OR MIDI-MAXI COCKTAIL DRESS
TRADITIONAL VIETNAMESE FORMAL WEAR IS ALSO ENCOURAGED

Is there parking available at the wedding venue?

YES. MORE INFO WILL BE PROVIDED CLOSER TO THE DATE

Will your wedding be indoors or outdoors?

THE CEREMONY AND RECEPTION WILL BE INDOORS, WHILE THE COCKTAIL HOUR WILL BE OUTDOORS

Are children allowed?

IF YOUR RSVP INCLUDES A SPOT FOR YOUR CHILD(REN), THEY ARE WELCOME TO ATTEND. PLEASE NOTE, CHILDREN WILL BE LIMITED TO FAMILY ONLY

Will there be alcohol?

YES

Is smoking allowed?

NO SMOKING, VAPING, OR E-CIGARETTES ALLOWED ON THE PROPERTY DUE TO THE VENUE BEING A PUBLIC LIBRARY AND HISTORICAL BUILDING

What is the best way to contact you if I have additional questions?

PLEASE CALL OR TEXT VICTORIA AT 832-392-7398